The Heck With Balance! Are You Doing What You Want to Do?

Have you read Fire Starter Sessions by Danielle LaPorte yet? Well, she just ran a free audio course that wrapped on Monday, and it was as inspirational as anticipated. So much feel good, juicy dreams, get ‘er done info! It’ll make you feel like canning everything you hate and hitting those big dreams of yours hard.

The one shining memento I came away from the course with was this…Do what feels right to you. The heck with expectations and balance. Feel free to mix things up, take the less beaten path, do what you wanna do.

This way of thinking helps me big time. I tend to do the things that I feel need to get done first. Like the work you don’t love but feel obligated to do. You know what I’m talking about. For real, what would happen if we all did the things we love? The things that feel right?

Obviously, we have to pay the bills and this means some stuff we aren’t absolutely head over heels for. But how many of your daily tasks could have waited a day or two to get done? Or maybe never need get done at all?

Let’s say you have deadlines or meetings one day. These would fall into the “must get done” pile. Then there are the items you feel are necessary for a balanced existence, like returning those phone calls or sorting your sock drawer. Those babies fall into the “don’t really need to get done” pile. No one is going to get stood up or fired if your gym socks are mixed with you dress socks.

Next is that list of what you’d really like to do. One day. Some day. The stuff that lights your fire and makes you feel instantly energized. What if you did some of that every day? Or at least most days? Feels like freedom, right?

So I’m doing a little experiment. I have a day where no assignments are due and no appointments are on the calendar. Of course, there are articles I could be working on and inboxes I could be sorting through and files I could be organizing. But not today.

Today I am dedicating to writing. For me. My blog and other creative projects I’m working on. Stuff I usually do once my “real” work is done. It feels super indulgent and exciting.

What do you think? Does this idea feel liberating to you? Or like a disaster in the making? I’d love to know!

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